Jay Payleitner Blog

Don't try to figure out a pattern to my blogging. There isn't one. 

About those whiny, flopping soccer players…

July 20, 2026

“How is that my foul? He’s been doing that all game!” — typical footballer to doormat ref   Dear Soccer Fans: My apologies. I must be out of the loop. […]

Road Trip!

July 17, 2026

Dear Road Tripping Friends: As 2026 whizzes by, my book Happy Semiquincentennial, America! continues to find a nice audience. Thanks for that. As many of you know, the opening chapter […]

Reading Text Messages in Movies

July 13, 2026

“If you’re in the communication business, communicate.” — Jay Payleitner   Dear Friends: I’m on record promising my Substack posts would fall into one of three categories: Family: Some assembly […]

Take two-person pics

July 10, 2026

“In the moment, the person next to you matters most.” — Jay Payleitner   Dear Friends: Rita and I have five kids, four daughters-in-law, and eight grandkids. I cherish any […]

The Myth of Writer’s Block

July 8, 2026

“A professional writer never succumbs to writer’s block.” — Jay Payleitner   Dear Writers (and that’s just about everybody): To prove there’s no such thing as writer’s block, I submit […]

My WGN TV Interview

July 5, 2026

“Bomb Pop shirt for the win! Nice job, Dad.” — Rae Anne Payleitner (via text) Dear Patriot: I’ve done literally hundreds of book interviews in the last 20 years, but […]

Verbalize Dreams

July 3, 2026

“The mission of marriage is to help each other chase your dreams.” — Jay Payleitner   Dear Married Individual: Earlier in our marriage, I had an occasional nightmare that in […]

16 Pics for America

July 2, 2026

Hey Friends: My book, Happy Semiquincentennial, America!, has exactly 250 entries, more than 46,000 words, and almost 100 photos. All to help YOU fall in love with America again. Here […]

A Poem for Summer Sunners

June 26, 2026

“Sunburns are a great way to tell the world you are a slow learner.” — Anonymous   ONE RAY OR ANOTHER Someone wiser than me said that when you go […]

They’re just doing their job

April 14, 2026

Parents who want to stay connected with their kids need to roll with the punches. Expect—and maybe even welcome—the weirdness and frustrations that come with each season of their young […]

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