Jay Payleitner Blog

Don't try to figure out a pattern to my blogging. There isn't one. 

Avoiding Dilbert’s To-Do List Overload

March 28, 2018

Poor Dilbert. Opening today’s newspaper, I see Scott Adam’s beloved character wrestling with a challenge that’s all too common: Way too much on our human to-do list. Like Dilbert, your to-do […]

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Child on Merry-go-Round

The Circle Game

March 22, 2018

Dear Friends: I love this quotation . . . “You don’t really understand human nature unless you know why a child on a merry-go-round will wave at his parents every […]

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Dusty Baseball Glove

Oil Their Mitt

April 15, 2017

It’s that time of year. My world champion Chicago Cubs are starting strong. Boys and girls are getting spring fever. So this is an excellent time to remind moms and dads of […]

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Pokemon Go

Pokemon Go For It!

July 12, 2016

Hiya. This is not an endorsement for Pokemon Go.  I think it’s probably harmless.  I know it has gotten literally millions of young people to go outside and walk around.  (That’s […]

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Elephant Art Project

Five Strategies for Raising Creative Kids

March 24, 2016

Dear Moms and Dads: Every field of endeavor needs a creative spark. And your brilliant kids can provide it! How can you encourage that spark?  Consider . . . When […]

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Couple holding hands

9 Ways Couples Can Connect (despite the kids)

March 1, 2016

Dear Married Friends: One of the oldest running jokes in the world is how kids put a halt to romance.  And believe me, I get the joke. The distraction begins […]

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Don’t buy a Valentine’s Day card this year

January 26, 2016

Hey February Shoppers: Instead of spending $4 on a schmaltzy disposable card, grab a copy of my new book 52 Ways to Connect as a Couple. That book — hot off the presses […]

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Knox Presbytarian Church Bucket

Sometimes a bucket is a bucket

January 21, 2016

Hey Friends: The good folks at Knox Presbyterian in Naperville, Illinois have given me a proverbial whack along the side of the head.  And I’m still a bit dazed. I wrote […]

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Star Wars Poster

Dads & Star Wars

January 6, 2016

Hi Friends: So last week I took my daughter, Rae, to see Star Wars: The Force Awakens. I have three follow up thoughts to share.  (No worry, no spoilers here.) First, there […]

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