Really, I'm just a storyteller.
In more than 30 books and having spoken to audiences in 20 states, I'm humbled to say my stories deliver unexpected takeaways that often change lives.
Dads connect with their kids. Marriages are strengthened. Grandparents make lifelong connections. God’s plan unfolds. Optimism sneaks in.
My latest book, Girl Dad, was co-authored with my amazng daughter. I wrote 10 solid chapters on all kinds of issues girls face -- making friends, hopes and dreams, self-image, boyfriends, this fallen world -- and Rae Anne wrote her own perspective. (Often including stuff I got wrong or missed completely!)
If you're a girl dad or love a girl dad, it's a suprising and enlightening resource. I promise.
Looking for your next good read or someone to keynote an event? My books and talks cover a lot of ground. Let's chat.

Jay's Newest Release written with his daughter, Rae anne!
Girl Dad
My daughter and I provide point-counterpoint to help Girl Dads everywhere better love, support, and relate to their daughters. You'll cherish this labor of love.

Hooray for Grandparents!
Keep the generations connected and build your own legacy of love and laughter. May I do a book reading for your group?

Best Selling Author
More than 30 books published and a half million sold.
National Speaker
Any group. Any time. Covering a lot of ground.

“With an enjoyable, non-preachy approach, Jay Payleitner gently challenges us to get out of our own way. A great read and a great blessing.”
- Ken Blanchard, author of The One Minute Manager and Lead Like Jesus